I agree that in a relationship sometimes there is the "reacher" and the settler". I think I used to be the stettler, settling for him while he is the "reacher", reaching for me. But now, vice versa role, not really vice versa, more of I am reaching for him hard, but he is not settling for me...funny isn't it....this thing call relationship...haha..

I am no longer reaching for you now, coz you no longer have me in your sight what more your heart...